❌ You’re not stuck because you don’t care enough.
❌ You’re not stuck because you’re not capable.
❌ And you’re definitely not stuck because you “just need to be braver”.
You’re stuck because your mindset is quietly holding you back — and no one ever taught you how to train that part of your riding.
Stable Minds Coaching is for riders who feel they should be progressing…
…but keep getting in their own way.
If this sounds familiar, you’re in the right place
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You ride regularly, train thoughtfully, and still feel like progress has stalled
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You know what you should be doing — but self-doubt creeps in at the worst moments
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You second-guess decisions, especially when things don’t go perfectly
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You compare yourself to others and wonder why it looks so easy for them
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You want to feel confident and capable, not tense and apologetic
You don’t need more motivation.
You need clarity, perspective, and mental consistency.
What Stable Minds Coaching actually helps with
This isn’t about “positive thinking” or pretending nerves don’t exist.
Stable Minds Coaching helps you:
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Understand why self-doubt shows up in your riding
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Stop overthinking every mistake or comment
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Build confidence that holds under pressure
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Make decisions and trust them
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Ride like someone who belongs there — because you do
The goal isn’t perfection.
It’s progress you can feel and trust.
Why work with me?
I’m Ros — an equestrian mindset coach, dressage coach and judge, with over 30 years in the horse world.
I’ve worked with riders at all stages, on both sides of the white boards.
I understand how riders think — and how judges see.
That means:
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I know what actually matters in the arena
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I know where riders put pressure on themselves unnecessarily
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And I know how mindset quietly shapes performance, confidence and consistency
Stable Minds Coaching blends real-world riding experience with practical mindset tools — no fluff, no gimmicks, no shouting affirmations at mirrors.
Stable Minds Coaching Membership
£47 per month
A calm, supportive space to work on the mental side of riding — properly.
What’s included:
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1 × 1:1 mindset coaching session per month (Zoom)
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Private Facebook group for support, reflection and perspective
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Access to all Stable Minds resources
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Occasional group Zooms focused on confidence, clarity and riding mindset
This is structured support — not endless content or pressure to “keep up”.
Who this is for (and who it isn’t)
This is for you if:
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You feel capable but held back by self-doubt
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You want to progress without burning out or forcing confidence
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You’re open to reflecting and making small, meaningful changes
This isn’t for you if:
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You want a quick fix or someone to “psych you up”
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You’re not ready to look honestly at how your mindset affects your riding
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You’re looking for therapy rather than coaching
Ready to stop getting in your own way?
You don’t need to wait until you feel “ready” or “good enough”.
You just need to take the next sensible step.
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or
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if you’d like to talk it through first
Final straight-talk note (because it matters)
✨You’re not behind.
✨You’re not broken.
✨You’re just riding with a mindset that’s never been trained properly.
That’s fixable — and you don’t have to do it alone.